Hardness is defensive. She shoves. It is daunting. She is not empathic and inviting. It's a fence. barrier. It's a wall. And most of the times, if we prove stubbornness and great will, we will go through the partition and discover a magical garden hidden and ashamed. We will discover the exact opposite. And only here in the bathtub, garden doors can be wide open. Breathe air, and splash in water without a drop of threat. Only good and good.